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Health » Sexual-health » Love-stimulant-041203
True love is the most powerful stimulant

Penis injury during intercourse

Afzal asks,
Every time I have sex, my penis gets cuts due to the rubbing action. Please advice.
Dear Afzal,

Lack of 'adequate' lubrication is invariably the only cause for such complaints. Early penetration while the vagina is still dry can cause the cuts. Engage into 'good' foreplay at least 20 minutes before intercourse. Good foreplay is one, when both the partners are 'more than willing' and enjoy pleasuring each other. Good foreplay will produce natural lubrication, and that will solve the problem.


Safe sex

Nisha asks,
How to have safe sex? Is the use of a condom an adequate protection against AIDS?

Dear Nisha,

The ONLY way to have truly safe sex is to have sex ONLY with one partner who is not carrying any of the STDs such as AIDS etc. 'Strictly' avoid changing partners. All other so-called safe-sex practices are unreliable. I have seen many patients, who have contracted AIDS in spite of using condoms.

Sex tonic

Vishal asks,
Can you tell me which kind of food, herbs, vitamins or exercise can improve the quality of my erection?
Dear Vishal,

There are no vitamins, herbs, minerals, food items or exercises that can improve the quality of your erection. Science has proved that all such claims are "false". There is no scientifically proven 'sex tonic' or 'aphrodisiac' in any branch of medicine such as Allopathy, Homeopathy, Ayurveda etc. Even Viagra (Sildenafil) does not bring about an erection. It can only help to sustain the erection longer.

What drugs cannot can do. 'True Love' is the most powerful stimulant and aphrodisiac.

Female genitalia

Amit asks,
I am confused about the female genitalia. How does one know the right opening for penetration during intercourse?
Dear Amit,

There are two openings in the female external genitalia. The one above is smaller, known as urethral opening. It is meant for passing urine. The one below is larger, known as vagina. It is the vagina through which girls get their periods (menstrual flow), intercourse is performed and a child is born. In order to penetrate correctly during intercourse, it is best to take the help of your partner in guiding your organ rightly. This also ensures her readiness and her involvement in the act.

Beauty and attraction

Paul asks,
I am 25 years old. I have been married for 4 years to a not so beautiful woman. She is a good wife to me but I don't find her beautiful, although physical intimacy does exist between us. Is it normal and is there some remedy for this?
Dear Paul,

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
We have known many men and women who are not conventionally beautiful, but love each other dearly, and find tremendous satisfaction with each other in physical intimacy. Even those who are conventionally beautiful do not remain so for ever.

After four years of marriage, you are expected to grow in love and maturity in your relationship and look at each other beyond the size and shape of the body. Grow in love. Love is extremely 'sensual', and it is sensuality and not the physical features or physical statistics, which determine a fulfilling, intimate relationship.

Dr. Rajan Bhonsle
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