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Parsi Wedding
Pre-wedding rituals
Madhavsaro
 Madhavsaro is four days before the lagan, the families of the bride and groom each plant a young tree in a pot, amidst recitation of prayers by the family priest, and place this at the entrance of their homes. This is generally a mango plant and is treated as a symbol of fertility. The soil in which the tree is planted is mixed with chips of three types of metals (usually gold, silver etc), paan (betel leaf), supari (betel nut), haldi (turmeric) and dry dates. The plant is watered every morning till the eighth day after the wedding and then transplanted elsewhere.
Adarni
The next day, which is the third day before the lagan, is a day for gift exchanging. On this day the groom's family visits the bride's home to present her with all the gifts like clothes, jewellery. This is known as Adarni. The bride herself may also go over to the groom's home for this tradition, the groom cannot do the same. The relatives, neighbours and friends are treated to a traditional meal of sev and dahi, boiled eggs and bananas.
Supra nu Murat
The day before the wedding is the Supra nu Murat, which is close to the Hindu mehndi-haldi ceremony. Four married women are given a supra each, containing paan, supari, haldi, dates and a piece of coconut. While singing ritual songs, these supras are exchanged seven times among the women cross-wise, length-wise and breadth-wise. A fifth lady sits in the middle with a khalbatto and dry turmeric. After the four women finish passing the supras, all five join hands to beat the turmeric along with some milk in the pestle and this paste is applied by all to the groom and bride along with a showering of blessings.
Wedding rituals
Nahan
On the day of the lagan, chalk or rangoli is used more than usual and every staircase, doorway and even the gates of the wedding venue or baug are decorated with large colourful designs. The Zorastrians consider the period immediately after sunset or very early in the mornings auspicious for marriage. Most weddings generally take place at about 6.40 pm. The actual marriage ceremony, the bride and groom go through the Nahan ritual is the purification of the body and soul wherein the family dastur symbolically bathes and purifies the man or woman. After the Nahan ritual, the bride and groom cannot touch any person outside the family or caste. The bride then dresses in her madhavate the white, ornate wedding saree given by her parents, while the groom wears the traditional Parsi dagli and feta a white kurta like garment and a black cap.
Achumichu
 The Parsi lagan takes place either at a baug or at an agiary (the fire temple). A stage is set for the couple and before they step on it, the groom first, a ritual called achumichu is performed. The bride's mother takes a tray with a raw egg, supari, rice, coconut, dates and water and begins the ceremony with her son-in-law to be. First, she takes the coconut and circles it around the groom's head seven times before breaking it on the floor to his right. The same is done with every other item on the tray, except the water, which is thrown on either side. The bride then steps onto the stage for her future mother-in-law to perform the same ritual.
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