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Weddings the Italian way
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What is a Symbolic wedding?
A symbolic wedding is a non- civil (non legal) and non- religious ceremony, held by an officiant not related to any religious structure. In most cases, it is the couple who will write the text, and outline the schedule of the wedding. An option for many young couples is the symbolic wedding ceremony which gives the couple the freedom to conduct the nuptials on any locale. These days many couples head to seaside ocean resorts, or jump over to the luxurious islands of nearby Sardinia...they look North to the forests of Amalfi, the mountains, stretching south to ports of Siciliy, and Castiliogne della Pescaia to name a few. A common unifying thread weaving the different wedding themes centres around nature, vows, and spirituality.The sense of harmony and solace represents today's mantra as opposed to religious dictum which may have been the trend in the past.
Popular venues include: beach resorts, old castles such as the Odescalchi Castle which recently celebrated Tom Kats wedding.
Donna danno sposa spesa moglie maglio
The husband reigns, but it is the wife that governs (Italian proverb)
Wooing suitors and beloved
Italians traditionally don't date one-on-one as compared to youngsters in the US and other European countries. Young people tend to congregate in groups and socialise in that manner. It's only after the initial few meetings at this informal function that serious relationships sprout and the dating process actually starts.
Family is important to Italians. Both families, especially the girl's side, looks at the background, education, prospects and the potential of the boy. In turn, the criteria for a woman's worth for marriage is not only based on beauty, education and family background, but also on her ability to be a viable contributor to the marriage partnership through some type of vocation. Historically this can be traced back to the 17th century when women in Italy were judged on their ability to contribute to work on the farmland.
Ring of eternal love
Once the proposition is made by the boy and the girl (her family) has officially accepted. It's time to scout for a ring. Although a seemingly trivial task at first glance it is really one of the most important elements of the marriage ritual and ceremony.
According to historians, the diamond engagement ring symbolises an important Italian tradition. The flames of love that fuel the intense heat creates a diamond. And what's more, the diamond ring doesn't just symbolise the groom's adoration, it also represents the future facets and joys the couple's life is bound to hold for them.
ITALY
Residency requirements: None
Necessary documents: Passports or armed forces ID cards; certified copies of birth certificates; proof of divorce or death certificate of former spouse/s (if applicable).
Need declarations "atto notorio" sworn by four people before and Italian consulate officer attesting that they know of no reason to object to the marriage under the laws of the couple's home country; declaration sworn to by both parties that there are no obstacles to the marriage under U.S. law.
Note: Certain documents must be translated into Italian with special "apostille" seals from the secretary of state from the state from which the documents originated. Additional requirements apply if one of the parties is an Italian citizen or resident of Italy. Requirements may vary by region and city. It is highly recommended that you work with a wedding planner to help you fulfill all requirements properly. A translator may be required to attend the wedding if neither the bride nor the groom speaks Italian.
For more info: Contact the Italian consulate nearest you the Italian Government Tourist Board Office (in India http://indiaonestop.com/indmission2-I1B.htm)
Duration: During your stay to be present at your National Embassy to obtain the "Nulla Osta". This document will then be translated into a legally valid Italian document, by the staff of Italy weddings, and presented in the town hall where you will get married. In all, you should plan to be in Italy at least one week prior to the wedding.
Plan ahead: Needs at least a month's notice for a civil service, to book appointments at the various offices. |
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