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Top 5 Mistakes Women Make In The Bedroom
 
Top 5 Mistakes Women Make In The Bedroom If you're always unsure of yourself in the bedroom and are often left wondering whether or not you satisfied your man, here are some things that you should know.

Yes, women too make many mistakes in the bedroom and knowing what these are will help you to make your lovemaking more special and extraordinary.

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Top Sex Mistakes Women Make

  • Assuming that men are always ready for some action: No matter how hard men may try to portray that they're always 'up' for sex, that's not always the case. While men do desire sex more than women, they too have their off days when they simply may not want to indulge in lovemaking. When this happens, women often end up making the mistake of thinking that their men do not find them attractive anymore or are probably having an affair.

    Relax girls, your man may just be tired!
     
  • Not understanding that love and sex don't mean the same thing to men: When women have sex, their bodies produce a hormone called oxytocin which brings about an intense emotional reaction from them. Men's bodies do not produce this hormone and thus they do not experience that strong an emotional connection as women do. This is why men can have sex without confusing it with love but women find it extremely difficult to do so.
     
  • Always expecting the man to initiate lovemaking: Women in general and Indian women in particular expect their men to initiate sex more often than not. While men are generally ok with starting things all the time, they do want their women to take the first step every now and then. It shows them that their women too enjoy sex and don't always do it just to please their partners. So ladies, set aside your inhibitions and show your partner how much you want him too!
     
  • Feeling hurt when men don't want to cuddle: Women simply cannot understand why men don't want to cuddle after sex but just want to crash. Again, this has more to do with their physical make-up than anything else. See, after making love, women still remain in a semi-aroused state for sometime and thus want to snuggle up to their partners, talk for a while, and cuddle. It is all about remaining connected for some more time.

    But men don't feel the same. In fact, if your man starts snoring after sex, it could just mean that he has had some terrific lovemaking and is thoroughly spent – so take it as a compliment!
     
  • Not bothering to keep yourself attractive: When a woman first starts going out with a man, she takes extra care about her appearance. But a few years into a serious relationship or after marriage, many women tend to let themselves go and don't bother about their physical appearance as much as they used to. Agreed that responsibilities increase and you may have less and less time to spend on yourself, but if you just made that little bit of extra effort to make yourself look good, your partner will find you much more irresistible than he already does!
     

Ask your man to read our Top 5 Mistakes Men Make In The Bedroom so that you'll can both stop making them and enhance your lovemaking considerably.
 
Ruchi Agarwal
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