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Is It Possible To Love Two People At Once?

Being with two people at the same time...

While I do believe that loving two people at once is possible, I also believe that being with both of them is not. Recognizing that you have romantic feelings for two people is one thing, but acting on those feelings is quite another. So what do you do in such a situation? Well... you make your choices and be happy with them.

What if you realize that you're still in love with someone after you've made your choice and are committed to another? For instance, you're happily married to your spouse and really love him / her but seeing your old boyfriend / girlfriend from college after all those years still made your heart skip!

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In that case, the first thing you need to do is not be scandalized by your own reaction. No, you're not a 'bad' person for feeling what you feel, nor is your marriage a sham. Your reaction just suggests that you still hold a very special place in your heart for someone you loved at one time in life, and will probably do so forever. But you've now moved on and love your spouse and life's great!

So really, being in love with two people at once is not where the problem lies. The sixty-four million dollar question is, "Can you be happy with simply recognizing that your love can extend to two people at the same time, or do you feel compelled to act on that love and get involved with both!"

Ruchi Agarwal
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