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Different minds, different matters...
How to impress a professional woman
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"Teachers like men who yearn to learn new things in life, are inquisitive, have a joy of life. Another thing, which is very important, is that he should respect my values and principles in life. Throughout the day teachers try to be ideal before the students and imbibe discipline and values in their minds. Hence it becomes a part of her life. So if she comes back home and finds that the same things are missing in her husband she would not be ready to test her patience. It would be difficult for if she has to tame a truant husband after dealing with mischievous kids all day. Also since teachers have long vacations I would expect my partner to take me out for a vacation at least once a year." - Jayeeta Chandra, Teacher, Kolkata
If she is a doctor:
Doctors generally have a very closed fraternity. A majority of them hardly interact with people from other professions. Because of their profession they hardly express their feelings openly. If you are from another profession be sure you are ready to understand and accept her thinking and lifestyle or you will soon end up being sorry for yourself.
Stop ending up before her clinic with a headache or a stomachache. She would hate that. The smarter way would be to go for a morning walk in the same neighborhood park and strike up a chat on the jogging track.
"I think no one understands us better than another medico. In that case you can expect him to understand your sensibilities and outlook towards life. Moreover a doctor has to be very sincere to her job. It needs more commitment than any other job because we deal with life and death of common people. The job drains us emotionally too. If we marry someone from other profession then he has to be ready to accept the interference of patients in my private life. Moreover we face a lot of harassment from patients throughout the day so we expect our partners not to behave like patients at home. If you want to impress a doctor never speak to her about illness...she will lose interest in you. We prefer men with a good sense of humour which can take off all your tiredness in a jiffy!" - Nikita Bothra, Doctor, Mumbai
If she is an engineer:
No pun intended, whether you're "civil" or not, or into electronics, a metal specialist, or a mining expert...nothing wins the heart of woman like a smart and witty chat in a coffee shop. And for most engineers that spend tons of time in the confines of their office this would be her ideal date. If she is impressed she would be ready to burn the dance floor with you on a Saturday night. Dr Guha adds, "engineers are quite nice, fun loving and easy to go person and they are not difficult to impress them unless of course she turns out to be snobbish!"
Again most people think that an engineer is always a geek and would like to get married to a geek only. But this is not always true. They like intellectual, witty and handsome guys but he need not be a geek.
"From the time I have joined a job I have been in office for at least 12 hours! Now it has been a way of my life. So when I get married I expect my husband to give a helping hand in the day to day work and share the responsibilities at home. I cannot take up everything on my shoulders from cooking to cleaning to taking care of small things. Moreover money should never come in between us and he should be okay if I earn more than him. I feel if he is from a different profession then it would be interesting as we can share our thoughts on different issues and at the end of the day there would be much more to talk about!" - Supriya Joshi, Software Engineer, Pune
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