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Whom to choose?
Anonymous asks,
I am in love with an American girl and planning to marry her. The problem is that she is not an Indian. She is five years older than me, but she doesn't look older. Please advice. My parents are furious about this. They have stopped talking to me. My brother, who is my age understands me better and has advised me not to marry her, due to the age difference. She is ready to learn and accept Hinduism, even though it is not really a big deal for me. I definitely don't want to lose touch with my parents, as there can be many girls, but not parents. At the same time, I have been physically and emotionally attached to her for a long time. Please help. Give me some advice so that I can kill two birds with one stone.
Dear Friend,
Firstly, you must be sure of what you want in your partner. If you are thinking of marrying someone, you should be sure of the person. You have to make that call on what is important to you. It is often not an easy task to keep everybody happy all the time. You know your parents; there is a way to win back their love and confidence. Even before this, you need to weigh all your thoughts about your girlfriend and be sure if she is the one for you.
Confused in a relationship
Daisy asks,
I've been married for four years now and our relationship has not yet begun. He doesn't communicate with me nor does he like spending time with me and yet he doesn't want a divorce. He never discusses our relationship or about our future. Every time I approach him, he changes the topic and says he has too much on his mind to deal with me. He is neither clear about our relationship, nor does he communicates with me. I am confused, what should I do?
Dear Daisy,
You have given your enough time for this relationship. Four years is a long time to make someone even talk about the relationship. It is now up to you to take the next step. What would you like to do? Do you want to continue in this relationship or would you like to move on? Do not feel stuck just because you are married to this person. You are not leading a married life with him. Look back on your four years and if you feel that you have enjoyed most of it and are going to have a reasonably good time with him, then you know the answer. While if the situation has always been like what you write, then, it is time for you to move on and there is no point in waiting for him to discuss or talk!
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