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Keep The Spark Alive

Positive Pessimism
The glass is best when it's full, manageable when it's half full, troublesome when it is half empty; and painful when it's empty. Life cannot offer optimism in all situations, but that does not mean we need to be pessimistic. Imagine a glass with half capacity. Even though it is half, it is obviously full!

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The new concept of positive pessimism leaves no scope for wholehearted pessimism. Look for the positive points, no matter HOW few they may be; look for them in your partner. See what your partner has done for you instead of focusing on what he/she hasn't. And bring these positive points to your partners notice. Express five negatives to your partner; but only after giving ten positives. That's a good equation to have!

Fall in love all over again!
Have a honeymoon everyday - it's allowed! Romance is almost like a birthright and we're all entitled to it. Believe that you are with your partner by choice; and not because you just have to be or because it's convenient. Put the pieces of the jigsaw back together, life then seems more momentous, your interactions become beautiful and your relationship; even more bright, alive and meaningful. So be the match and enliven that spark!

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