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The politics of sex
An insight into the sexual experience of women
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The last article explained the sexual experiences of man. Now let us try to get deep insights into the sexual experience of a woman.
The core of being a woman is the ability to bear children. This is nature's way to provide her with the joy of loving. Nature has conditioned woman in such a way that she has to think about her children before anything else. That is why, her whole awareness is centred at her ovary. Now, the nearest chakra to the ovary is the solar plexus and that is where the woman's energy is centred as opposed to that of man, whose energy centre is at sex chakra.
The solar plexus is higher than the sex chakra, and hence, has more capacity to hold the energy. Hence, a woman can hold much more energy than man and only when this chakra begins to overflow with energy, will she have an orgasm. Now the trouble is that man begins to overflow too quickly, so the sex act ends abruptly. This leaves a woman dissatisfied and clamouring for more, while the man has already gone to sleep. After a few such disappointing experiences, a woman loses any hope of ecstasy through sex. That is why she begins to avoid sex and takes little interest. For her, the joy remains in feeling intimate, not in the act of sex.
Does this mean that a woman is incapable of enjoying sex? No. On the contrary, a woman can enjoy sex much more than man. Since her centre is at solar plexus, which can hold much more energy than the sex centre, she can enjoy sex much more than man. Some old texts mention that woman enjoy sex seven times more than man. She has the capacity to go through a chain of orgasms. But the sad fact is that the world over, women do not normally have orgasm. Some of the research studies have brought utterly shocking facts to the forefront. One such study says most of the women have never had orgasm in their entire lives, even though they have been married or been in relationship for a long time. So it is very normal reaction on the part of the woman to take much less interest in sex, which may be difficult for man to understand.
This is why a sad gulf begins to emerge between the sexual behavior of man and a woman. While men are compelled into sex regularly, so that he can get rid of his stress; woman gets disinterested because she finds no ecstasy. In such a state, it is no wonder that the act of sex looks so absurd to her, like funny gymnastics. This is why she stops to love and respect man. They appear truly selfish creatures, who keep troubling her to get rid of their own troubles.
In such a scenario, it is no wonder that she begins to manipulate man. Sex is man's compulsion, not her's. So if he is using her for his own relief, she has every right to use him to fulfill her own agenda. That is how she begins to manipulate man and use him to fulfill her own desires. Man has no choice. Woman just takes her due, as she has to compromise. This is how, such a divine act becomes the playground for politics between both the genders.
This is a sad state of relationship between man and woman. Do they have to bear this curse forever? Will this transaction continue and take away the pleasure of sex and devoid them of divine love? No. It does not have to be like this. There is a simple way out. Both man and woman should begin to enjoy sex thoroughly. This will diffuse all such manipulations, which may be existing at present. In the later articles of the series, we will be discussing the various ways by which man and woman can enter into the ecstasy together.
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Shivo
The playful mystic
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