Learn if you are satisfied with each other in your relationship.
Ask your partner to use this quiz to evaluate you. Take it yourself, too.
I compliment, encourage and appreciate more than I criticize. I notice my partner in positive rather than negative ways. Usually
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Rarely
I am aware of my shortcomings as a partner and am working to improve on them. I am growing rather than remaining static, and willing to take responsibility myself rather than blaming others. Usually
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Rarely
Whenever conflict sets us against each other I step forward and declare that I want reconciliation. Usually
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Occasionally
Rarely
I seek to share closeness and bring the other pleasure. I promote a sexual relationship that is satisfying to both of us. Usually
Often
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Rarely
I make sure that the load is evenly divided and the responsibilities are shared fairly, in giving, taking, for both of us. Usually
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Rarely
Despite other commitments, like job, children, house, I make our relationship a priority. Usually
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Rarely
Together with my partner I plan and work for a satisfying future. Usually
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Rarely
Being "we" together or "I" apart I am responsive to my partner's needs for both closeness and space. Usually
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Rarely
When I am wrong or at fault, I acknowledge that I screwed up and apologize. Usually
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Occasionally
Rarely
In our relationship, I promote my own needs as well as my partner's. Usually
Often
Occasionally
Rarely
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