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Dealing With A Blast From Your Past

Deepa felt like rolling her eyes in disgust, but internally realized that Manish's reaction was just an outburst of jealousy.

Looking at him in the eye, she said, "You know that isn't true Manish. I was just being polite. Turning my back would have seemed childish, as though I'm scared of saying hello."

Fortunately, for both Deepa and Manish, the incident blew over. Thankfully too, Deepa had enough presence of mind and did not reveal her contact details. Else, Ramesh could have tried to intervene and make life unpleasant for the twosome.

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Handling Unwanted Complications

Unfortunately, things are not always so simple. Sometimes old flames - male and female - can make life pretty uncomfortable, especially in circumstances when they continue to be unattached.

Let these nuggets of wisdom about running into old flames help you find your way out of such sticky situations -
  • Accept that you may have been intimate in the past, but leave it at that. Remember that past is past.
  • If your old flame has made the first move, by acknowledging your presence with a pleasantry, there is no harm in being cordial, irrespective of your situation. No need to get tongue-tied or worked up.
  • Make it clear - you're happy NOW and are not interested in re-kindling the acquaintance.

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