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Is cyber voyeurism cheating?
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Now for something more personal from their lives. Although Tilak and Ahna are happily married and care deeply for each other, their present sex life is not what it used to be. Of course most marriages reach this phase after a certain period. While love for each other may remain, and the physical relation continues, the physical attraction tends to fade. Ahna and Tilak have reached this stage of their marital life. Other factors like Tilak's age and diabetes somewhat affected his performance in bed while Ahna, due to other reasons lost interest in her sex life. Weeks pass, without any physical intimacy. And even when it happens, both are aware of the absence of the spark that existed.
Now this is not to say that Tilak must have turned to virtual sex out of frustration, but when he tumbled into this new world, he did feel a new kind of excitement entering his routine life. Coincidently during those days he came across an article written by a well-known psychiatrist and sexologist in a reputed newspaper. Acccording to the doctor, reading or watching erotic material could help in enhancing the couple's sex life. Armed with the expert's opinion, Tilak tried to convince, or rather convert his wife. Once he even tried to make Ahna watch something kinky on the net. Ahna saw a little but didn't enjoy it. For her, it was voyeurism at its worst. And she was positively repulsed when Tilak one night tried to do something new in bed. What was innovative for Tilak was dirty for Ahna. Naturally, each side had lots to complain about.
Months have passed, but they still complain on this issue. Tilak avoids visiting those sites when Ahna is around, but when she is not watching; he finds the urge irresistible. Ahna knows this. It is her firm belief that, porn sites are for perverts only and sexual experiments should not cross certain limits even between husband and wife. She also feels that by drooling over those super sexy women's images, Tilak is passing a subtle message that he no longer finds his wife desirable. Why, she never looks at naked males on the net, cause she loves her husband.
Once when Ahna was very upset, she told her family physician about this. The lady doctor just laughed and advised her to be cool about it. According to her, sooner or later, this phase in Tilak's life would pass, and he would lose interest in those silicone net beauties and their sexual acrobats.
Ahna is not very sure about this. She thinks this kind of interest is addictive and it would only make matters worse between them.
Now folks, what do YOU have to say about this?
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