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Is cyber voyeurism cheating?
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 No two people in the world can agree on every issue all the time. This simple truth applies to married couples too. Even the so-called ideal couples have their differences. Of course they don't pick up a fight every time they have an argument - most of them try to respect (or tolerate) each other's contradictory views. That's life!
But then there are things that can be difficult to digest even if one tries their best to be accommodating. Ahna (name changed on request) has been going through a crisis in her life right now. Lets read on...
She has been married to Tilak (name changed on request) for more than eighteen years. Their son is now in college, and both husband and wife are healthy and quite good looking. Of course the advancing age does take its toll on the human body. Ahna has put on a little extra weight and Tilak is suffering from what is called borderline diabetes. Apart from this, everything seemed normal, until the day Tilak came across a porn site on his personal computer.
The family had owned a desktop computer for the last seven years. The previous year Tilak had gifted his son with a laptop, and the PC got relegated to a corner of the couple's bedroom. While Ahna didn't much care for it, Tilak enjoyed surfing whenever he found the time.
Then one day, Tilak, by sheer accident hit on a porn site. Once the initial shock wore off, he couldn't resist spending some time on that tantalising site, and so the addiction began. Tilak's old and the innocent PC spat out lots of explicit but tempting stuff that day. The man was spellbound.
Ahna happened to walk in, saw what her husband was watching, and laughed aloud. She shook her head, murmured something like 'boys will be boys' and went to sleep. By morning she had almost forgotten about it, but evidently, Tilak had not. That evening, after finishing dinner, while Ahna watched her favourite TV show, Tilak was once again in front of his PC, touring the virtual world of forbidden pleasures.
This time however, Ahna was not amused. "I don't like this and I definitely hope you are not getting addicted to this stuff," she grumbled. Tilak turned off his PC but switched it on after a few days to visit other more explicit sites. This time, he tried to hide it from his wife, but Ahna was quick to catch up. She protested rather forcefully this time. Of course she didn't know what to say when Tilak questioned her, "What is wrong if once in a while I entertain myself just watching this stuff? It is not that I am cheating on you."
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