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10 Signs Your Lover Is Two Timing You
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 So, you've finally met someone who you gel with on every level and who seems just perfect for you. You're on cloud nine and things could not be better. However, lately you are feeling that something is amiss. You can't exactly put your finger on what the problem is, but you have that little niggle in your mind, which tells you something is up.
Ever felt this way about your partner?
When you're in a relationship, you may start to have sneaky suspicions that your partner is seeing someone else behind your back. Sometimes these suspicions may turn out to be the truth (which you get to know about at a much later date), whereas at times your doubts may not be rooted in reality.
Simply asking your lover whether he/she is seeing someone else or is still in touch with their ex may not be the smartest way to go because if your suspicions are wrong, your partner may feel insulted and things can take a turn for the worse. So, how can you tell if your partner is cheating on you without actually coming right out and asking them? Here are some signs that could be an indication that you are being two-timed by your lover.
- He/she always insists that they go out somewhere in your area. While this may seem like they are trying to be generous by coming over instead of making you travel to their neighbourhood, it could also be a sign that the person does not want to take the chance of being spotted with you in their area.
- The business trips are becoming more frequent, especially on weekends.
- While he/she could not stop calling you earlier, all your communication is now through email or SMS. This could be because they don't want someone to overhear when they are speaking to you.
- You are being avoided with excuses relating to work or family functions. But when you ask any questions you never get a specific reply for what the meeting or function is about. Perhaps your lover is out with someone else and not really at work or with family.
- Your partner gets a call on their cell phone and they instantly get up to take their conversation outside. This could be happening due to poor network, but if it happens regularly then it may be a sign that your partner is taking a call from another sweetie!
- Your lover's friends and work colleagues suddenly seem to be extremely uncomfortable when you are around. If that was not always the case, then the discomfort could be caused from knowing that your lover is two-timing you.
- When you ask him/her about their past relationships, you get answers that are very vague. This could be simply because your partner is uncomfortable talking about his past, but could also be because his past is still his present!
- Your sweetie is forever online chatting with someone; but the minute you come remotely close to the computer, the window is shut down. What is it that they are trying to hide???
- Your boyfriend/girlfriend will never ever be without their cell phone, come what may. Not just that, but they tend to get very paranoid if the cell phone is lying someplace where you may have access to it. Wanting your privacy is one thing but going to any lengths to keep their mobile from falling into your hands…something's up!
- You come to know that your lover has been unfaithful in his/her past relationships too. While on its own this is not something that you must feel concerned about, if any of the above signs exist and your partner has cheated before, then it is quite likely that the same thing is happening with you too.
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Ruchi Agarwal
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