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Are You In A Relationship Half Heartedly?
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 "He / she just does not seem to care. I am tired of dragging this alone now." Do you find yourself thinking this too often? If yes, then you need to sit down and take note of a few things to make sure that you do not let this negative thought process ruin your precious relationship.
There are no short cuts to success and this applies to making your relationship successful as well. In fact more so because in the case of your relationships, drawing up POAs and executing them is solely your responsibility - from beginning to end.
When at work you leave no stone unturned to put in your best efforts. You ensure that every task assigned to you is successful. Then why lose hope when you are required to put your best foot forward to make your relationship work?
A successful and meaningful bond requires an enormous amount of hard work and a half-hearted approach towards it will only turn things sour between you both. Let us get talking about things you can or rather - should - do to give the best to your relationship.
Take the First Step
Minali was fed up because every time she proposed getting out for a romantic dinner or a movie date, Rohit would respond with a, "I'm bushed. Lets order takeout." So she stopped proposing anything at all and instead started complaining about the lack of romance in their life.
The thing to ponder is, that Rohit was not opposed to doing something romantic. He just didn't have the energy to head out after a long day at work.
In a similar situation, Sanjana reacted very differently from Minali. Since going out for dinners was not possible she decided to replicate that atmosphere at home. With a few candles, dim lights, romantic music, gorgeous flowers and a wine bottle she set out to woo her husband.
Lo and behold! Aseem was so besotted with the take-charge Sanjana, he actually started coming home an hour early everyday in anticipation of what she would surprise him with. Naturally, after a few of Sanjana's fun and sexy home parties, Aseem wanted to reciprocate the gestures and started bringing home flowers and candy for her. He even surprised Sanjana with a movie date one Monday by requesting for a half-day off from work.
Easier Said Than Done
Of course, this is easier said than done. Things are not always so simple and so easily resolved.
In the case of Ranjit and Aashma, flaring tempers between both of them meant constant bickering and fighting. Neither of them was willing to back down and let things cool during a fight. Naturally, much of their married life is spent 'not talking to the other'.
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