One has to analyse the type of pressure of the formation of the characters and the formation of the characters. Their shapes. "From this we can conclude what some of the problematic factors are and recommend handwriting exercises," explains Bennethan.
She clarifies, "Don't expect me to solve your future problems. I can not teach an individual how to make choices. I can only point out their weaknesses and build upon their strengths. How to deal with crisis, handle difficult situations, expose skeletons from their past that may inhibit success in their future relationships." She adds, "Graphology is not astrology. It cannot predict the past or future."
Do women in India have different types of relationship issues as opposed to women in the West?
 Bennethan observes, "Women in India have to hold the home and hearth. The Indian woman has to put on so many hats. She has to be resilient, endearing, enduring, obedient; strong-willed - it just takes my breath away. She has to outwardly be cheerful at all times especially if she's in an extended family. She has to display the best of her upbringing, background and experience at all times. In other words she is always striving for the impossible perfection that has stereo-typically been her definition, and perhaps her Achilles heel," believes Bennethan.
"Women in the west are less stifled. They live in a less chauvinistic world and have a more equitable say when making important life decisions specific to relationship choices; be it when entering a relationship or breaking a relationship. In India, the Indian woman is governed by her family, her resources (or lack of), societal attitudes to age, background, education, career, and potential. Thus her choices are much more limited," concludes Bennethan.
She feels, "Maybe graphology won't solve all your life problems, but it can certainly help. It will help if you know whether your mate is an introvert or extrovert, whether he/she has emotional baggage from a past relationship, whether they are dishonest with themselves or others, or have a temper or sexual deviations." According to Benethan with proper therapy, which may include handwriting, exercises and changing formation of characters thinking processes change simultaneously. This is the first phase of life-long change and realization of more harmony and fulfilment in one's relationship.
Analysing Writing Pressure:
Heavy pressure: In the extreme such persons are aggressive, possessive, violent and egoistic. They are creative enthusiastic, sensuous and enduring. It shows an emotionally strong and deeply committed person.
Light pressure: Such persons are sensitive, tender, spiritual, adaptable and forgiving. They are passively indifferent, weak-willed and lake vitality. It indicates a physically weak and fragile person.
Moderate pressure: Such persons are moderately energetic, cooperative, sociable. They are calm and collected. They shun extremes and are balanced mentally.
According to leading experts there are 4 main symbols to determine our personality
The circle is the symbol of love. It signifies all rounded forms including the circular and loops.
There are two aspects of love. The first includes: playfulness, companionship, affection and devotion, acceptance and compassion. The other aspect is negative and induces self-indulgence, resentment, jealousy, envy, possessiveness and greed. Playfulness can be replaced by manipulation, threats and other corrupt practices. A predominantly circular form reveals a person who shuns violence and arguments. When unfulfilled it leads to hatred, sorrow, sadism and narcissism and other negative reactions. The rounded form is comparable to the nature of water.
The square
To preserve our natural need for love, sharing and playfulness; we also need a safe shape. This is the square. The house you live in, boxes and cupboards are all squares. People with this type of handwriting can be dependable, reliable but can also become defensive, artificial, dominating and lose touch with their feelings. They can also be hypocritical, stiff and hard, close-minded and non risk-takers.
The Triangle
Aggression, libido, dynamism, achievement and will. Triangle is a primordial form of sexual energy also a phallic symbol. People with this kind of handwriting are probing, exploring and releasing energy. They are action individuals, and with proper channelized energy can achieve excellent results. Negative tendencies exemplified in violent, neurotic and destructive behaviour.
The Squiggle
Symbol of imagination and is a combination of all three: circle, triangle, and square.
People with this type of handwriting wish to create and are able to expand, observe and contribute their own vision and insight. They tend to romanticize, spiritualise, and philosophise life. Usually musicians, poets and writers belong to this category. Negative tendencies: People with squiggle type must act upon their dreams because negative consequences of their motivation can lead to withdrawal symptoms, neurotic behaviour, psychosis or aggressiveness.
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