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Some people argue that it could happen even after marriage and then there is little you could do then than to accept it. Well in that case, you just face the situation together. At least there was no cheating or lies involved when you married. The point is, tell the truth about your health condition and let the other party decide whether they want to go ahead.
Walking in with eyes open
In case of love marriages, people decide to take risks even if they know everything. I know a man who married a cancer patient because he loved her. He wanted to spend whatever time they had together, happily. Here it was a choice. In the case mentioned before, the issue was medical. But sometimes there are other important things which we fail to clarify before marriage and then complain.
An upper middle-class girl married a boy from her own social and financial class. There are no major problems as such. But every time the girl comes to her parent's house or to meet her friends, she complains, "Oh, we have so many guests all the time, my in-laws love to invite people for tea, lunch, or dinner almost everyday. I get tired and irritated. Before marriage I never had to face this in my parent's home. If only I knew this..." Yet another girl complains that her family is too religious - 'fasting, visits to temple, inviting the sadhus...it's all too much. If I knew this before marriage...'
Well, if they knew, would they have agreed for the match? We don't know. But, at least, they wouldn't be complaining now. That is for sure. It is just not possible to know everything about the other person, his or her family's lifestyle, but at least we can try to know beforehand things that are important.
Don't you think that matters of health are important? Don't you owe it to your yet unborn child?
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