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Sexual addiction is harmful

Sexual addiction

Bial asks,
We always fantasise about group sex or swapping of partners.
Is it ok?

Dear Bial,
With fantasies such as these, you develop fixations, also known as "Paraphilia", which is detrimental to your sex life and to your mental health in many ways. Such fixations are forms of "Sexual Addiction" and are as harmful as any other psychological addictions. It is absolutely NOT O.K. to engage into these types of fantasies.


Do porn videos affect sex life?

Josy asks,
I have serious problems during sex, losing hardness during intercourse. Don't know whether it is erectile dysfunctional problem. But I never lose hardness during masturbation especially while watching porn videos. Does watching too many porn videos affect sex life?

Dear Josy,
Watching porn films / videos are detrimental to your basic human sensitivity and sensibility. There is absolutely no significant benefit (except the temporary cheap thrill) of watching porn, but it can cause serious harm to your sensibility, sexuality and relationship.
Your erectile problem needs further enquiry, investigation and examination. Do consult a sex therapist personally for professional help.

Vaginal discharge

Rashmi asks,
I get white discharge after I have sex and it is continuous. Is it normal?

Dear Rashmi,
If the discharge is clear or whitish it is invariably harmless and normal. If the discharge becomes heavier or thicker, changes colour to yellow, green or brown, or causes itching in the private parts, then you may have an infection. Bad-smelling discharge, and pain or bleeding in the vagina when you are not in your menstrual period, are also signs of infection. If you experience any of these changes, you will need to see a doctor.

Chronic ED problem

Krishna asks,
I have a chronic ED problem. What kind of doctor should I visit so that I can have a complete physical check up?

Dear Krishna,
Visit a qualified Sex Therapist (Consultant in Sexual Medicine) for professional help.

Erectile dysfunction

MRJ asks,
I am 28 and my wife is 34. We are married for the last 6 years. We have no kids. Though I did get an erection in the past, now I do not get it. When I consulted the doctor, he advised me to take a hormone test and that seems to be normal.
It is very difficult to get erection in the beginning. I have heard that I am suppose to try out new positions. Even after foreplay erection is impossible. But if I were to masturbate, I get erection.

Dear MRJ,
Your condition is medically termed as erectile dysfunction. The treatment depends on the cause of your erectile dysfunction. There are many organic (physical) as well as psychogenic causes for this problem. If it is due to psychogenic or situational causes, the treatment will be "sex counselling" and "supportive therapy". If the cause is organic or constitutional, then appropriate medical or surgical measures will have to be undertaken. It is necessary to find out the cause (diagnosis) of this problem first, through history taking, examination and investigations. Once the cause is found, only then can the treatment be advised.

Dr. Rajan Bhonsle
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