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Sex is not a 'sleeping pill'

Frequent urination

Sandhya asks,
I am suffering from frequent urination. I want to know the reason for it. In a website I've seen that frequent urination is a symptom of HIV myelopathy. After looking at this I am very tense.
Dear Sandhya,

Frequent urination is a common complaint and the cause in invariably urinary infection that can be effectively treated with antibiotics. Get your Routine Urine test and Urine Culture with Antibiotic Sensitivity tests done at a good pathology laboratory. Also get your Elisa test for HIV antibodies to clear / rule out the doubt of HIV / AIDS infection.

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No problem

Vinod asks,
After marriage will my wife come to know about my virginity by looking at my genitals? Does the genitals look different after having sex for the first time?
Dear Vinod,

Male genitals do not change the appearance after the first experience of sexual intercourse. Your wife will not be able to know about your virginity.

All in the mind

Varad asks,
Is the premature ejaculation a permanent problem? Can it be sorted by exercises? Or does it require some medicines?
Dear Harsh,

Premature ejaculation is not a permanent problem. There are no medical causes for premature ejaculation. It is essentially of a psycho-behavioral and relational origin. Modern medicine does not offer any drug treatment for this problem.
Ejaculating early is a learned reflex response that can be effectively reconditioned when a man and a woman actively pursue learning ejaculation control together.
You need to increase your awareness of the sensations of arousal building so that you can identify the level of your arousal. Secondly, awareness of sensations of arousal and ejaculatory control can be learned by following a step-by-step process. We teach couples the use of the squeeze technique or the stop-start technique.
Besides techniques, certain 'exercises for sphincter control' and 'use of condom' may help in some cases. Certain Flower remedies have also been found effective with some couples.

Sex is not a 'sleeping pill'

Kailash Kesheb asks,
I am married for 10 years, have two children and have no extra marital affairs. Without sex I don't get sleep and after sex my partner remains sleepless. How to overcome this? What is the problem you think?
Dear Kailash,

It will be necessary to analyze both of you carefully. You must realize that sex is not a 'sleeping pill'. It involves two live human beings with their feelings, emotions and desires. Sex is not merely a mechanical act.
You have mentioned that your partner cannot sleep after sex. Is it because she doesn't enjoy sex and feels compelled and tortured? Is it because she desires sex but does not experience orgasm and remains unsatisfied? These and many such things about both of you need to be found out, analyzed and only after that any help can be provided. Consult a sex counsellor personally as a couple for help.

Sexual capability

Jeyakumar asks,
I am about to get married within a month or two. How do I know whether I am sexually fit? Though I am not afraid of sex I want to confirm this before my marriage.
Dear Jeyakumar,

You may visit a sex therapist / counsellor at the premarital counselling centre where they also do all possible tests to assess your sexual capability and reproductive ability.

Dr. Rajan Bhonsle
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