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The right life partner
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When we are looking out for the right partner, number of factors need to be considered.
- Plan on your requirements & desires - be honest to self.
- Plan on your priorities.
- Be realistic.
- Discuss your choice / preferences with your family and trusted people.
- Clearly indicate your preferences & priorities to the concerned people - the proposed partner & the family.
- How open are you to adjustments?
- Have complete clarity of thought.
- Do not fantasize.
Once the preliminary contacts have been established, inorder to progress with the alliance note the following:
Before the Meeting
- Check on the desired educational qualification.
- Check on the profession.
- Try to find out as much as possible about the family.
- Check with the office / social circle
- If possible do speak to each other or make some one you trust, to speak to the individual over the telephone. (Please note the tone and attitude in the voice. You can observe if he / she is open, reserved etc.)
- Check on the information provided and the way it is presented.
- Also assess the interest the other side has in you and the proposal.
The First Meeting - At home or outside
- The first impression
- The first Feel Good Factor - did you feel nice, comfortable, even before you conversed with each other or any member during the first meeting.
- Observe the behavioural pattern, the way they speak and interact.
- Speak clearly about your priorities of life.
- Understand the priorities of the other.
- Note if you feel appreciative of each other.
- Do you find each other attractive - physically and mentally?
- If wit and humour are a must for you, check on that.
- DO NOT be unduly critical - we cannot get everything.
- Feel genuinely open and have no reservation.
Subsequent Meetings
- Do respect each other's feelings and priorities.
- Do not be in a hurry but give space to each other.
- Get to know the likes and dislikes.
- Be concerned genuinely about the feelings
- Note the attraction factor
- The comfort level.
- Do not let petty issues bother you.
- Be determined.
Try to understand each other and the families as much as possible before the marriage. Be prepared to give, to share, to respect and to love, happily. It is as important for men as it is for women.
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