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Dilemma
Pooja asks,
My would be husband wants me to work, but I want to spend some time at home. What do I do? Please help.
Dear Pooja,
Please try talking to him with a lot of understanding. Let it not reflect as an egoistic issue. Be a little diplomatic and sentimental. Assure him that you will take up a job a little later. Also prepare yourself mentally that you have to work. It all depends on you, how you handle the issue. You can definitely convince him. Give a genuine try.
Shy guy
Sandeep asks,
I am getting married soon, but till now I am unable to express my feelings in front of girls. I want to postpone my marriage because, whenever I talk to any girl I become nervous; my body becomes very cold and some times my hands shiver. What should I do to control these things?
Dear Sandeep,
There are a number of issues that we need to address. This is an open forum and I need some confidential information to offer correct guidance. Anyways, keep meeting your fiancée. Begin your conversation with common interests, likes and dislikes, family, movies etc. If you are good at writing, then express your feelings through your writing. Please try and mix with her, go to movies, food joints etc. Gradually you will feel comfortable.
Overlooked by colleagues
Pinky asks,
I have an attractive personality and am doing my job well. My seniors too are impressed with my work. But I find that my colleagues are ignoring me or are jealous of me. Being of a reserved nature, I find it difficult to make friends? What do I do?
Dear Pinky,
You have identified your problem. So now address it. You have to be friendly, begin with a warm smile and wishing people. Enquire about others. You have to make an effort. You have rightly pointed out about jealousy and it will grow. Contain it now with your warmth and communication. You have to do it.
Communication problems
Vineeta asks,
I am 30 yrs old. I met with a road accident when I was 22 and suffered brain injury. I am all right now but lack in communication skills, which mars my personality and confidence. I am married and have a son. But due to my lack in communication my husband always avoids to take me to his friends. Please help me. I am feeling very depressed.
Dear Vineeta,
Don't loose heart. Most of us suffer a lot of pain. May be you do not communicate like others, so what? I am sure your husband loves you and please do not feel that he avoids you because of your so-called lack of communication skills. Please take interest in your life, your son and your other interests. Join some classes like personality development or grooming or even hobby classes. Try to meet a counsellor, just to have a chat. If you are in Mumbai, you can contact me.
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