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Human relationships are very complex. Does a formula for a perfect relationship exist? How essential are love, lust, aggression, jealousy and passion in a relationship?

Lust is important in a relationship - Rajiv Paul

Acting excites him. Having begun his acting career with the television soap Swabhimaan , he soon picked up many others like Parivartan, Kitty Party, Bhabhi and Kahani Ghar Ghar Ki . Rajiv Paul has never looked back because acting is his forte.

Having explored many dimensions of on-screen relationships Rajiv talks about what goes into the making of a good personal relationship. He believes that space is extremely important in a relationship and more than love it is the companionship that he treasures with his wife Delnaz that forms the foundation of their marriage.

Rajiv Paul Rajiv Paul
Love
If there is no love there would be no relationship. You need to be constantly in love for a relationship to last. To many divorces happen because the couple is not in love but just in a relationship. You don't have to make any efforts to show you are in love. You just have to be in love. I love Delnaz for what she is and I like her because she loves me for what I am.

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Lust
Lust is extremely important in a relationship. If you do not feel this for the person you love then it might drift you apart. It is an integral part of any successful marriage. The self-fulfilment is very important.

Passion
Love and lust is a part of passion. But every single day one cannot be passionate about your partner.

Aggression
It is very unhealthy. Couples fight, argue every day because they have their own ideas and view points. And such small fights and arguments are not bad in a relationship. But if this takes the shape of a destructive behaviour then it should be stopped immediately. Talking to each other is the best way to resolve differences. Try and spend quality time with each other, go for a holiday.

Jealousy
Jealousy to a certain level is healthy and it is nice to know that your partner gets jealous when she sees you with someone else. But in extremely measures it is very unhealthy, like when either one is more successful in his profession or has more money. Jealousy in such cases can be harmful. The best thing is to trust your partner.

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