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Human relationships are very complex. Does a formula for a perfect relationship exist? How essential are love, lust, aggression, jealousy and passion in a relationship?
Kunal Khemu
Lust is something that is temporary
Kunal Khemu shares his candid views on love, romance, marriage and relationships. His spontaneous answers simply prove that in this heart speak interview he truly speaks from the heart.
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Love is actually a very broad term. Love is affection. You can love nature, animals, your mother or sister. Love is in human nature and is a part of everything.
Lust is something that is temporary. Everyone faces it some time in their life. People say that it is something in gratification that you can relate to lust.
Jealousy can be of different kinds. Sometimes jealousy can be healthy if it makes you work hard and do better in life. But if you are envious about someone in a different way it can be a negative energy, which is a part of you.
They say that jealousy and anger are closely related. So it is better to burn the anger and jealousy before it burns you.
It is better to channelise jealousy in a healthy way instead. For instance if you are jealous about someone being fitter than you and if it makes you work harder on yourself aiming to get fitter than him, you have improved yourself in the process.
Jealousy in a relationship is very common. It is because of the possessiveness, which comes with the relationship. I however can't comment much on that, as I am currently single. However I know of friends in relationships. So I am aware of jealousy existing in relationships to a certain extent.
Aggression is anger. As I said earlier you should learn to burn anger before it burns you. I used to be very aggressive once but have grown out of it now.
Aggression to a certain extent may be beneficial. For instance there is aggression in sports. But if aggression is disruptive it is a total no-no.
I think you need to be passionate about everything you do. Don't attempt anything you are not passionate about be it a profession, relationship or taking up a hobby.
The institution of marriage is something I am very away from right now. I am after all just 24. I feel you should marry only when you really feel like settling down in life (you are settled in your career and in a long lasting relationship with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with). Marriage is something you shouldn't jump into.
Romance is an important and integral part of life. I think everyone needs to be romantic to a certain extent. By romance I am not referring to the usual Hindi film romance. Romance can be funny, witty or weird. The definition of romance may differ from person to person, which is completely alright as long as it is romantic.
I think films are inspired by real life. So I don't think there's a marked difference between filmy love and real life love. Films are after all inspired from real life. Maybe in films we take love a level higher than what it may be in real life. In films you may see a hero singing a romantic song for a heroine. But in real life you may not see a couple sitting in a restaurant and singing a song.
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