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Is Marriage Mandatory In Life?
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Divya Chugh
A renowned tarot expert specializing in relationship issues. She excels in ''Compatibility Counseling''. She has immense experience relating with the problems of professionals, youth, students and families. She gives guidance to all kind of working professionals.
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Stress And Depression
 Komal asks,
My birth date is 30/07/1962 at 05.45am. I am still single. My life is very much a struggle. Now I am fed up of this life. Always unsuccessful in love!
 Dear Komal,
Marriage delays in our Indian culture bring lots of depression with a state of mind where a person feels deprived, helpless and insecure. It results in depression means either getting what one does not want, or not getting what one wants. But if feeling dejected and depressed is one part of the reality, the presence of strength and resilience in facing life is the other side.
There are numerous instances, recorded or unrecorded, in the lives of a person, which point to this uncommon degree of courage, calmness and enthusiasm even in the face of most trying conditions. We often wonder at these strength and ask: Is it possible? For us? The difficulty comes when we refuse to learn and instead cling to pain. That is how so many people go on privately fondling their painful memories, nurturing resentments, and planning to set 'others' right, not realizing that what must be set right is within and not without.
Please don't let your self down by negative thinking. Being a strong 'Leo / magician soul' you should use your "charm," persuasion, and whatever resource is available, and then let the Cosmic Forces direct your course or reveal what is hidden. In time, you will see that your prayers have been answered.
Advice: Pain plays the role of a teacher, educating and guiding us towards higher states of being. Wear 2 mukhi and 6 mukhi Rudraksh together.
Handling Difficult Relationships
Himani Mehta asks,
My name is Himani Mehta, 02/11/69 at 04.14 am, Mumbai and my fiancée's name is Chitrang Mehta, 06/11/73 at 11.15 pm, Mumbai.
We have been engaged since 19/08/2007 and have been looking at tying the knot soon, but unfortunately, we had to deal with either financial or family problems most of the time. This has been keeping the wedding at bay. This has unfortunately given rise to ugly fights, misunderstanding, arguments and its just leaving a bad taste in our mouth.
I would like to know, will we ever get married and if we do will it be worth it?
Dear Himani,
Your partnership is an intense one, and you are likely to become very attached or obsessed with each other. Both of you are also prone to be possessive about anyone that you give your love to. This relationship could easily lead to marriage but like most lasting, important relationships, yours will have its share of difficult times, and you both seem to thrive on passionate, tempestuous interactions. Stormy fights and sizzling reunions may typify your relationship.
You both love intensely and you hate with equal ferocity, so your relationship is likely to be either deeply satisfying or very destructive to you both; there is no middle ground for the two of you! Unfortunately present cards are not in favor of marriage and it's because of Chitrang's over expectations from life before time. Better give second thought or seriously work on improving compatibility by ignoring worries and over expectations. Take care.
Advice: Try to be more open when dealing with relationships. Don't let your worries or emotions build up so much that you tend to drop a bomb on your partner. It can really be hurtful.
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