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'Action & Guidance' cards from major arcane were The Hierophant & The Judgment cards. Presence of judgment energies was motivating her husband to leave the past & stressing need to make a new beginning. This referred to a worldly issue or to an inner decision about the way ahead. As the card also symbolizes resurrection, it could also be understood to predict the coming of better times and maybe the return of happy marital life. The Hierophant Guidance was for Meenal to "forgive" her husband for his mistake & give him little space to come out of his guilt & fear of facing odds of his dishonesty to his wife. This card asks for Open Communication between couples with positive approach.
The Devil energy in a reading refers to almost any negative character like greed, sexual infidelity or perversion, or some sort of dishonesty is involved and secondly, the one truly positive meaning of the Devil in relation to some personal problem, it can often recommend objective introspection of our own role in our problems. In other words, during experiencing pain, frustration, or trouble, the Devil card often tells one should look within and attempt to find ways in which one may have missed the mark and caused our own difficulties. When we are objective and receptive enough to look within our own hearts and label what we ourselves have done as "evil," we are in a place of honesty that is likely to lead to purging, reformation, and growth.
Advice: Finally Meenal was advised to Keep Patience & perseverance in this matter as cards were showing signs of the beginning of differences in extramarital affair. She was supposed to understand what motivates a partner to "cheat?" For them, honesty and sensitivity to others just doesn't figure into things. More than that it is unrealistic expectations of what the relationship should be like, and the inability to work through those disappointments that leads some to look for what they think they want elsewhere. If couples don't have the tools to communicate with each other about their needs, and come up with solutions that work for both of them, they are often left floundering with their emotions and a sense of being alone versus connected with another. That state of mind can lead to making destructive decisions, and everybody suffers.
Even given the tremendous pain of the situation, it can be a time for couples to re-evaluate, re-focus and even, re-commit to each other. If couples can understand and work through their problems, it doesn't have to be the end.
It would be wise to brace yourself and work towards getting over the memories that you've shared with a cheating husband. Giving a little space to husband and let him come out of his emotional trauma, a feel of being distrustful in marriage. Every couple has some sweet memories, albums & romantic moments. Remembering those moments is the best remedy to revive a beautiful relationship once again. Forgiveness cannot be told or expressed in words. It can only be felt by your normal behaviour & sweet smile.
Kids are the best healers in infidelity issues. Sharing mutual responsibility of kids like, spending more & more time, helping them in school work, showing them family photographs, tucking them into bed for sleep, sharing sweet memories with them are few key points that actually helps the partner to come out of his guilt & fear.
Time is the best healer. Today Meenal is very happy with her husband Rahul. After a period of almost a year, she is again expecting. Rahul is totally out of his complexes & truly loves his wife because of her ways of dealing with bad times.
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